Forgiving is a complicated thing.

Forgiving is a generous act as it is For Giving. It won't be a straightforward act.

Before try to forgive, one has to learn to tolerate and not to blame. And before try to tolerate, learn not to judge others (including oneself).

In order not to blame and judge others, one has to learn to accept and surrender. Accept everything and anything that exists.

Things or persons are what they should be; there is nothing wrong with them (...all things, persons and events have been created by oneself...) .

Therefore, there is no need to judge, there is no need to tolerate and there is nobody/nothing to blame. Nevertheless forgiving is unnecessary.

The Red is red, the black is black and the white is white.

Actually there is no right for the Red to blame the black for being black and the white for not being red, no right at all…no right at all…

When things do not go well, try to look into inside bar outside.

In this way, life will be easier, troubles will be saved, responsibility will be taken, personal growth is possible and frogiving becomes a natural act.